11.07.2007

in connection to Grey's

the Callie-George break-up

Callie told George that she is letting go of him. it was a noble decision, but it was like everyone says, if you love someone, set them free.

honestly, i never understood what it meant.

i never understood how letting go of someone will show that you love them. isnt it like giving up? isnt it like you were not ready to fight for it? or is it because youve controlled the other so much that you should set them free from it? and when they say "if he (or she) comes back, then you are meant to be" is it because they missed that you controlled over them? i dont know. i cannot understand.

coz what i know is that relationships work two way. no one controls over the other. its a give and take. and when u dont fight to strengthen the relationship, it is like giving up on it, giving up all hope, relaxing from the tide and just let the wave blow you to shore. maybe im no relationship expert, and maybe i am idealistic.

but maybe it is because i believe in love above all.

2 R a v e s:

Princess Annix said...

same goes with me. i don't believe in letting go=love. heck, if you love someone, why let him slip away right? come to think of it bro..*wink*

@margeemateo said...

oops! haha! i was thinking of the "aftermath" not before even something happens. haha! sucks! oh well!